"We love each other, but something is missing..." Does this thought sound familiar to you? Perhaps you feel that the ease and closeness that once defined your relationship have been lost in the routine of everyday life. The conversations go in circles, the tenderness has faded, and instead, silence or arguments prevail. It feels as though you’ve lost sight of each other – and yet, there is the question hanging in the air of whether it’s possible to reconnect.
When you’ve recognised this moment, you’ve already taken the first step: you want to actively work on your relationship. This is where couples therapy comes in. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we sometimes lose sight of what truly binds us as a couple: genuine closeness, humour, mutual understanding, being in tune with one another, the ability to "read" each other, and the respect to handle even conflict-ridden phases with care.
As an experienced couples and sex therapist, I provide a safe space where you and your partner can meet without judgment or criticism. Together, we explore the roots of your conflicts, how old patterns shape your relationship, and which new paths you can take to reconnect and deepen your bond.
When is couples therapy beneficial?
You might be asking yourself: "Do we really need couples therapy?" This is a question many couples ask when they find themselves in a period of uncertainty.
Do any of the following resonate with you or your partner?
Frequent conflicts and arguments that revolve around the same issues.
A sense of emotional distance: feeling like you're living parallel lives or no longer emotionally connected.
Breach of trust: when trust has been broken, whether through an affair or other violations.
Sexual dissatisfaction: when intimacy and desire have waned in your relationship.
Life changes: facing new challenges such as the birth of a child, moving, or illness.
If you recognise yourselves in any of these situations, couples therapy offers a chance to break the cycle and take a conscious, positive step forward.
What can you expect in my practice?
Every couples therapy session is as unique as the individuals who come to see me.
However, in my practice, you will always find:
Empathy and appreciation: Your concerns, fears, and hopes are welcome here, just as you are.
Practical tools: We don't just look at the past, but also develop solutions that you can integrate into your everyday life immediately. Often, I also assign "homework."
Openness to all topics: Whether it’s communication, intimacy, or other relationship issues, I provide a safe space to address even sensitive topics.
As a sex therapist, I have a particular sensitivity to the intimate aspects of your relationship. Often, it’s the unspoken desires or fears that have the deepest impact. This is where my work comes in—gentle but clear, and without taboos.
How to recognise a good couples therapist?
Choosing the right couples therapist is crucial for the success of your therapy. When searching for a therapist, ensure that they have a solid foundation in psycho-social education, such as a degree in psychology, social pedagogy, or education, or comparable qualifications. Additionally, they should have completed specialised training in an accredited therapeutic approach, such as systemic therapy.
Another indicator of quality is membership and certification with a reputable professional association, such as the German Society for Systemic Therapy, Counselling, and Family Therapy (DGSF) or the Systemic Society (SG). These associations guarantee high standards in education and practice. Don’t hesitate to ask about these qualifications—an experienced therapist will be happy to share them with you.
Why is systemic therapy particularly suitable for couples therapy?
Systemic therapy is especially well-suited for couples therapy because it views the relationship as a dynamic whole. While other therapeutic approaches often focus on the individual, systemic therapy looks at the entire system in which the partners operate. A couple is already such a system—shaped by mutual expectations, communication patterns, emotional entanglements, and external influences, such as family, work, or social circles.
What makes systemic therapy unique is its resource-oriented approach: it helps you recognise your strengths as a couple and break the patterns that lead to conflict. By considering not only individual perspectives but also the interactions and dynamics between partners, systemic therapy fosters a deeper understanding of the relationship as a whole. This makes systemic therapy the ideal method for achieving lasting change—both for you as individuals and for your partnership.
Why me?
Finding the right couples therapist is a very personal process. It’s about finding someone you can trust and feel supported by. What my clients often highlight as a strength is my ability to approach the unique dynamics of each relationship with sensitivity. I combine proven therapeutic methods with a holistic approach that places your individual needs at the centre.
It is also very important to me that you feel comfortable in my practice. A warm and welcoming atmosphere in the beautiful rooms of the Weiße Villa practice, time dedicated to your concerns, and respectful guidance on equal terms—this is what you can expect from me.
The next step: Get in touch
Perhaps you’re feeling a little clearer now, or perhaps a bit unsure. Both are completely normal. Couples therapy is not an easy step, but it can be one that is worth taking. If you feel drawn to this, I warmly invite you to contact me. In an initial conversation, we can determine if my support is right for you.
Take this step—for yourself, for your relationship, and for the opportunity to truly reconnect. Discover how you can grow together—I’m here to support you.